When was the last time you did something just for you? Something indulgent. Something special. something that made you feel loved from head to toe? You deserve to be spoiled, and there’s no better person to spoil you than you. Whether you’re looking for a little luxury or a budget-friendly pick-me-up, here are 10 fun ways to shower yourself with love.

1. Buy an Expensive Bottle of Wine & Pair It With Your Favorite Dessert

Cost: Splurge

A glass of really good wine can turn an ordinary night into a celebration. Skip the usual bottle and splurge on something fancy, then pair it with a dessert that feels just as luxurious. Whether it’s a rich chocolate cake, fresh berries with whipped cream, or warm peach cobbler, this is about pure pleasure.

Try:

• McBride Sisters Black Girl Magic Red Blend

• Theopolis Vineyards Petite Sirah

• Jenni’s Brambleberry Crisp Ice Cream

2. Write a Love Letter to Yourself

Cost: Free

Grab a pen, find a quiet space, and write down everything you love about yourself. Be as extra as you want! Talk about your resilience, your beauty, your kindness, and everything that makes you you. Seal it in an envelope and read it when you need a reminder of how dope you are.

3. Take Yourself on a Solo Date to That Fancy Restaurant You’ve Been Wanting to Try

Cost: Expensive

No waiting for a date and no compromising on what to order! Enjoy a night with just you and an incredible meal. Dress up, go somewhere with ambiance, and enjoy every bite like the queen you are.

Pro tip: If the idea of going out solo makes you uneasy, start at the bar for a more relaxed dining experience.

4. Treat Yourself to a Spa Night at Home

Cost: Cheap

Run a hot bath, add some essential oils, and treat your skin to a full-body scrub. Put on a face mask, deep condition your hair, and lather yourself in the best body butter you can find.

Try:

• Head 2 Toe Brown Sugar Scrub

• Head 2 Toe Body Butter

5. Buy Yourself a Silk Pajama Set & Lounge Like Royalty

Cost: Splurge

Nothing says, “I love me!” like lounging in a ridiculously soft, silky pajama set. Ditch the old T-shirt and sweats and upgrade to something that makes you feel like luxury, even while you’re just binge-watching your favorite show.

6. Make Yourself a “Love Me” Playlist & Dance Like Nobody's Watching

Cost: Free

Curate a playlist full of feel-good anthems and songs that make you feel sexy, confident, and powerful. Then, turn up the volume and dance around your living room like you’re the main character in your own movie.

Add these to your playlist:

• “Juice” by Lizzo

• “Electric Lady” by Janelle Monáe

• “Cozy” by Beyoncé

7. Buy a Dozen Roses For Yourself

Cost: Cheap to Splurge

You don’t need to wait for someone else to send you flowers. Walk into the florist, pick out a bouquet that speaks to you, and place it somewhere you’ll see it every day. Fresh flowers are a simple, beautiful way to remind yourself that you are worthy.

8. Splurge on a Signature Scent That Makes You Feel Like a Goddess

Cost: Expensive

The right perfume can make you feel sexy, powerful, and unforgettable. Find a scent that speaks to your soul — something that lingers when you walk by and makes you feel like that girl.

Try:

• Chris Collins African Rooibos

• Fenty Eau de Parfum

• Byredo Gypsy Water

9. Read a Book That Feels Like a Warm Hug

Cost: Cheap

Books have a way of reminding us of our worth, our power, and our joy. Pick one that fills your spirit, makes you feel seen, or just brings you comfort. Bonus points if you read it in bed with a cup of tea.

Read this:

• All About Love by bell hooks

• Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert

• In the Flo by Alisa Vitti

10. Take a Nap in the Middle of the Day Just Because

Cost: Free

There’s something rebellious about taking a midday nap when the world tells you to keep going. Close the blinds, put your phone on Do Not Disturb, and snuggle up in your softest blanket. Let yourself rest without guilt.

Loving yourself is about the little things — the small, everyday luxuries that remind you that you matter. Whether you choose a simple act of self-care or a full-blown splurge, the most important thing is that you do it for you.